Re: My Unchosen Mother...

**Angel** · **Angel** on Tue Mar 31, 2009 4:33 pm

good for you mel,you are being so mature and showing that you are not gonna let petty things ruin your treatment of others (namely family even if they don't deserve it at the time) .Either way,big well done from me.No one can say you didnt' try and weren't patient.Lets hope she follows your lead Smile/happy

xx

BethG · BethG on Tue Mar 31, 2009 4:35 pm

I wholeheartedly agree with Angel. You're such a wonderful, sweet, kind-hearted person and frankly the actions of your mother and now MIL just leave me open-mouthed and without words. You are head and shoulders above them, gutter, and are handling yourself with such grace.

Gutter · Gutter on Wed Apr 01, 2009 11:08 am

well I forgot to say...I was going to mail that letter/pic on Friday, but never got around to it. Then that night my mom called and I answered it b/c I wanted to solve things with her. She was drunk of course, asking who I was and I told her it was me and she was sooo happy and asked how I was doing and how her baby (audrey) was doing. She asked if I was busy, which I was (talking to DF about his sisters wedding)....so she told me to call her Saturday. I did and left her a message, but she never called me back (so wondered if she realized what she did...) Anyways I did get a late day call from her on Sunday and we talked for about 30-1h. It was nice to talk to her again, but dont' think I'll be able to call her every day like I used to. Anyways that's our progress Smile/happy