MIL drama and lack of husband suport

Ok well my mother in law is a long story (as angel knows from my rants lol)
The reason she dont like me is because my husband never told her about me even though we met online we had talked since i was 14 and dated from 16 and my whole family and friends knew all about him i rember closer to me moving here i met his little sisters (on the phone) But she blames me that he never told her that we where getting married. end of the day my family knew i was getting married she should take that down with him not me!

On top of that she came down here visit last year and was all nice to my face then told my sister in law she hates me. got back new york and told my husbands cousins aunts n uncles ect that me and my husband run a porn website from the bed room....... (this is a short list of drama that happend) so i swollowd my tongue and said ok this is her first granddaughter ill send her a invite to the baby shower (keep in mind she got money not working at the mo and went to my sister in laws baby shower) didnt even call to say she cant make it. Then the night of the shower she calls me my husband cussing him out calling me a "that fucking stupid british bitch didnt even give me enough notice" she was told a month in advance..... im done tryin be nice to this bitch every one ealse may be scared of her but she ovisly dont know my mum didn't raise no punk ether. she just rubs me all kinds of the wrong way and annoys me because im a nice person who gets along with most ppl lol. but what makes me more mad is my husband dont defend me he laughs about it. am i in the wrong for thinking he should say something seen as i use defend him till i was blue in the face to my mother

Nothing to that extent in my fil and his wife, your mil is just plain rude. I do understand how you feel a little though. I have gotten into it a few times over the years with my fil and my husband absolutely does not get involved or stand up to his dad at all. In fact, it seems like he reverts to a child/father relationship with his dad and cannot call him out on anything. I am sorry, it sucks to be in your position. I am glad you stand up to her - sometimes those family bullies need someone to tweak their tail and take them down a notch now and then.

Yeah, if you haven't guessed it yet I can be a trouble maker lol.

yeah i tryed talking to my husband but he just looks at me blankly, Yeah i know he laughs because he use to it, his dad to this day even though they been split for years bends over backwards for the woman apparently in her words "this is what happens when u marry a white woman they are trifflin bitchs" but claimes she not racist when her mother is white and they get along grate lol i don't understand why she feels need to go out her way about me like this when i was one takeing care of her kids (his sister in laws 12 and 6) when they came down to nc and the kids love me but meh i can rant all day about her antics i just had enough of her now and told her to grow up act her age and stay out of my life she can see her granddaughter but only under husbands supervision because if im here ill punch her in the face she didnt have nothing reply to that lol