Want to kill my husband right now!

ok well Jessie(my husband) has paid nooooooo bills in 15 months now he getting paid go school and he got 1400 came through, And im like ok cool because im about pop this baby out (been in slow labor 6 days) and i get paid under the table so i got take 3 weeks off no paid leave so i been in panic mode.
And i get in from work he meant be going with me to walmart get last things i need (keep in mind i brought everything for the baby so far on my own)
I get in ready to leave im like ok don't forget 7pm u need come with me ect because i didnt want to go by my self incase i go in full labor any time soon and i get home he tells me he got a in GAME!! event and he cant go so i go by my self then he bitches i spent $80 of the money when he just instead of paying bills here at the home we live at,
Payed his mums light bill and cable bill brought his sisters a Wii!
His mum claiming be broke but his lil sisters n mum all on myspace sayin how they got there hair done n nails done.

But he bitchin i got 2 boxs on papers wipes and a nursing bra $70 to my what 2k and up And me paying the bills do u think that's fair?
Am i in the wrong for being mad at him?
Its the fact i felt so alone during everything and he finally can help out a lil and he helps the woman who spending money all over the show talking shit about me when i dont know her she has not taken time to get to know me, Her and saying how this baby aint her granddaughter!
Got no problem with her nephew whos father in and out of jail
But got a problem with me ?Work hard, Support her son's lazy ass think because he went Iraq 3 fucking years ago world owes him a living im so mad lol (ends vent)

Awe, i am sorry leanne:( sounds like he needs to be a little more giving to you i don't blame you for being upset! i would too!! hopefully he will come around and when your little girl gets here, i am sure he'll change and see what he's got! you probably will have to stop him from spending money on her then!

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Awh. I'm sorry honey. You know my DH was kinda like that before our baby was born too. He didn't see the need to pay for anything and would always argue with me about how much things cost but once our son was born and he had to pick up diapers on the way home and saw how quickly Owen outgrew things he became much more helpful and calm about the money we spend. I hope things will improve. Having a baby is so stressful and you will need his support especially in the early days.......

((hugs))

Aw, Leanne, sounds really tough. I was worried myself that I will have to start my mat leave 3 months before baby is due as my boss is not going to renew my contract so I will only have 3 months full pay and 3 months half pay after baby is born. I feel really selfish now as that's nothing compared to your situation, plus my husband will just work over time without complaining. I hope you sort something out with him, don't want the stress of it all to make your labour harder. You really must try and relax x

sorry babe,I am really not impressed with him and never have been,he does think the world owes him a living,I have notheing against pregnant women working and eearning money or chipping in,but he needs to get off his lazy ass,stop playing video games and priorotize his fucking life.Makes me so pissed.He needs to take care of you both.Especially now.He's being immature and selfish and if you left him it wouldbe entirely his fault.As for his family,fcuk them,by the wway theyre acting is unfair and mean so I wouldnt concern myself with trying to make nice on that one.Soon you'll have your little girl,you wont feel so alone and at least someone will appreciate you.I certainly hope that he snaps out of it when she's born coz you need support and so far he's been about as much use as a chocolate teapot!

You ARE right,you are a sweet kind VERY hard working girl who desreves better

love you xx

Thanks for your support girls and about the moving away from his family the funny thing is we live in NC and she lives in new york she dont call or text email nothing unless she knows he has money. At this point i pretty much givein up on him i just want to make sure my child has a father who shows some what compassion and own up to there responsibly. I never had that so i would like that for my child but at the end of the day i was better off with out my dad and if he proves me right time and time again then im gone because i didnt move across the street to be with him im in same boat as Holi we both moved and gave up our life our home our family to be with our husbands , And if he cant even so much as give me 30 min of his day when he dont even come to bed till 6am playing video games then im done i can do better and i know my daughter can do alot better he needs grow up fast because my child comes first now.