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Need some advise
Hey ladies as most of you know i have been working under the table as a nanny cooking cleaning the 5 bed room house ect and taking care of her kids to the point i know more about them than her.Im going back to college in Jan most of my classes are 6AM-4PM and i have to be at work at 3PM so i dont know weather to quit my job and go school full time or try work something out with her and not see cloie from 6am-9pm. I dont want to lose time with my daughter but also i like to have my own cash(even though i dont need work right now)
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OK. So I will give you my opinion.
If you can manage without the money I would probably give up the job for three reasons.
1. You are going to miss that beautiful baby and just want to be with her at night.
2. Your class schedule sounds like it's going to busy and you will be wiped out when you get out in the evening.
3. When will you do homework? No sense in going back if you can't stay on top of the work load. A job would just mean that when you ARE home you still wont have much time with baby girl.
I understand the need to have spending money that's your own but if you can manage for a while once you finish school you have a job where you are making MORE than just a little spending money. Is your DH supportive of you not working?
Does he realize that he will have to pay for your expenses?
I'm sure you've thought about all of this but sometimes it's nice to see it written out!!!!! Keep us posted on what you decide.
If you can manage without the money I would probably give up the job for three reasons.
1. You are going to miss that beautiful baby and just want to be with her at night.
2. Your class schedule sounds like it's going to busy and you will be wiped out when you get out in the evening.
3. When will you do homework? No sense in going back if you can't stay on top of the work load. A job would just mean that when you ARE home you still wont have much time with baby girl.
I understand the need to have spending money that's your own but if you can manage for a while once you finish school you have a job where you are making MORE than just a little spending money. Is your DH supportive of you not working?
Does he realize that he will have to pay for your expenses?
I'm sure you've thought about all of this but sometimes it's nice to see it written out!!!!! Keep us posted on what you decide.
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he is the one who suggested me quit my job and go to school he is paying for my school and said he will pay my hospital bills and get everything cover but yeah you make alot of sense where would i have time to sturdy and id be throwing the money down the drain
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I'm loving your new avatar!!!!!
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Me too, that little girl just makes me want to hold her and snuggle and love her forever!
If you could manage it, I say don't work.
If you could manage it, I say don't work.
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lol ty i hug her so tight now she just clints to me like a little monkey she got use to it i guess haha she at the age where i can hug her with out worrying im going brake her i have alot more pics comeing up i took her sears got 7 poses for $36 that was one i took with my cell when the woman left the room and.
But i gave my notice in today hubby said he got more than enough in the bank to last us till i graduate so going hurry so i can be in the job i did in england then go college online whilst working for medical coding and billing till there are more jobs going in nursing (even though they get paid more heh)
But i gave my notice in today hubby said he got more than enough in the bank to last us till i graduate so going hurry so i can be in the job i did in england then go college online whilst working for medical coding and billing till there are more jobs going in nursing (even though they get paid more heh)
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I'm so glad you made a decision! Sometimes just wrestling with a decision is the hardest part!!!!!
Lou Lou- Part Of The Furniture
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yea was thinking about it for almost a month but im glad i made this dission will go from a $7 hr job to a $15 may as well go for it now whilst he can afford support us 3
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