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Life has turned upside down!
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Life has turned upside down!
Sorry I have not been on lately. Just when things started looking up from the miscarriage and other stuff, life threw a wrench to all normalcy.
DF and I have broken up. I am leaving tomorrow to move to Louisiana with me and the girls, and he will eventually move back his home town of New Jersey once his "hookups" pay off. It's been crazy as hell in my household. We are on friendly terms(if one can call this crap friendly). He will have Jayden every summer and rotate holidays. I still cry sometimes when I think of our future "not together". But, I am excited enough about living in Louisiana to make it bearable. I have been packing like a crazy woman trying to have everything done before we leave(and we're still not done), so haven't been able to update like I wanted to. I miss you ladies.
DF and I have broken up. I am leaving tomorrow to move to Louisiana with me and the girls, and he will eventually move back his home town of New Jersey once his "hookups" pay off. It's been crazy as hell in my household. We are on friendly terms(if one can call this crap friendly). He will have Jayden every summer and rotate holidays. I still cry sometimes when I think of our future "not together". But, I am excited enough about living in Louisiana to make it bearable. I have been packing like a crazy woman trying to have everything done before we leave(and we're still not done), so haven't been able to update like I wanted to. I miss you ladies.
mscherry42- Serious Poster
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So sorry to hear about your troubles. I pray that God will watch over you and girls.
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Cherry!
I was wondering where you had been lately. I just assumed you needed a little space from everything.
I am so sorry to hear this!!!! Please keep us updated on things as you get settled.
I'll be praying for you. **hugs**
I was wondering where you had been lately. I just assumed you needed a little space from everything.
I am so sorry to hear this!!!! Please keep us updated on things as you get settled.
I'll be praying for you. **hugs**
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oh no mscherry i am so very sorry for your sad news how stressful all this must be and I am very very sorry
We will all be thinking of you!
We will all be thinking of you!
Ginny- Part Of The Furniture
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oh sweety! I am so sorry,we are here for you and hope your move goes well.I am glad you will at least be back around family who will care for you and help Then you can find happiness.I guess from the 'hookups' refference that he cheated on you? I am SO sorry if thats' the case.no one deserves that!You are so strong anf you have your beautiful babies.Take care sweet lady and keep us posted,we care very much about you and yours! xxx
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(((hug))) So sorry. I hate when everything happens all at once. Once you get that packing done and are on your was to Louisianna you can take a deep breathe and just let all of that craziness go. I hope you have a good trip, and I am glad you have your family to look forward to when you arrive. I will keep you and those beautiful little girls in my thoughts and prayers.
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OMG!!!! That is insane girl! I am so sorry. That is so crappy, wish I could just give you a big hug. If you need anything we are here for you. I am so glad that you will be around family and friends who will be there to support you. You will find happiness, I know it seems hard right now. It sounds like you are handling the custody of your daughter in a mature manner.
Please don't be a stranger.
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Please don't be a stranger.
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Hun
I am so sorryt o hear this, i hope your ok and im glad things are going ok xoxo thinkig of you
I am so sorryt o hear this, i hope your ok and im glad things are going ok xoxo thinkig of you
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Oh no, mscherry. I am so sorry to read this and so sorry you are going through this. I hope being close to your family and friends will help. Please don't be a stranger; we miss you. Sending you big hugs! ((((mscherry))))
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Thinking of you in this hard time Ms. Cherry. Take care of yourself and your girls. xoxo
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I'm so sorry mscherry, you really have been through enough without this! You & the girls will definitely be in my thoughts xoxox
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Cherry,
I am so very sorry that you are going through all of this now.. I wish there was something I could do for you hun.. Know that if you ever need any of us we are all here for you babe. oxo
I am so very sorry that you are going through all of this now.. I wish there was something I could do for you hun.. Know that if you ever need any of us we are all here for you babe. oxo
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Re: Life has turned upside down!
Quick update since I'm at McDonald's(suppose to be doing school work really quick). My mom doesn't have internet
Me and the girls are settled in at my mom's house. Jadah went to visit with her dad for 10 days last night. He signed giving me his permission to move to LA!! The goof ball actually hugged me last night when he showed up(weird and awkward as all get out coming from him!!)
Jayden is still bad as hell, but has adjusted better than I could have expected.
I'm still unemployed, but will get on the grind this week.
Ex DF and I are on speaking terms, no ill feelings, though he pissed me off the other day by "requesting" the big tv. Don't get me wrong, I don't really need the thing, but I guess I feel as though he shouldn't get to request anything out of that house, since he's the one "leaving" it. He even wanted one of the wiis, which wouldn't have been too big of a problem, except that Jadah's dad bought hers so that was not even an option, and HE bought the other for me as a birthday gift back in 2007(he actually forgot that he'd bought it). Probably, because most of the stuff in the house I've bought. The big stuff we "went in half" for, but usually I got jipped with the whole "I'll pay you back" phrase. And he always intended to give me half, but stuff sometimes happened which prevented it. As long as we were together, who cares, but NOW, hell no. I'm complaining. I did tell him how I felt, and then ended by saying to him to take what his heart felt he should take, and I would replace what he took. So, we'll see what he decides to take with him, the punk(not really but still). OK, now I have to go. I have to piss really bad and can't leave my laptop and purse sitting here on the table in Mickey D's. Going home now!! Take care, and thanks for all the hugs and inspirational thoughts. Love you all!!!!!
Me and the girls are settled in at my mom's house. Jadah went to visit with her dad for 10 days last night. He signed giving me his permission to move to LA!! The goof ball actually hugged me last night when he showed up(weird and awkward as all get out coming from him!!)
Jayden is still bad as hell, but has adjusted better than I could have expected.
I'm still unemployed, but will get on the grind this week.
Ex DF and I are on speaking terms, no ill feelings, though he pissed me off the other day by "requesting" the big tv. Don't get me wrong, I don't really need the thing, but I guess I feel as though he shouldn't get to request anything out of that house, since he's the one "leaving" it. He even wanted one of the wiis, which wouldn't have been too big of a problem, except that Jadah's dad bought hers so that was not even an option, and HE bought the other for me as a birthday gift back in 2007(he actually forgot that he'd bought it). Probably, because most of the stuff in the house I've bought. The big stuff we "went in half" for, but usually I got jipped with the whole "I'll pay you back" phrase. And he always intended to give me half, but stuff sometimes happened which prevented it. As long as we were together, who cares, but NOW, hell no. I'm complaining. I did tell him how I felt, and then ended by saying to him to take what his heart felt he should take, and I would replace what he took. So, we'll see what he decides to take with him, the punk(not really but still). OK, now I have to go. I have to piss really bad and can't leave my laptop and purse sitting here on the table in Mickey D's. Going home now!! Take care, and thanks for all the hugs and inspirational thoughts. Love you all!!!!!
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I'm glad to hear u made it safely and seem to be in good spirits! Life really is uside down right now but u really sound like u r also adjusting well. I've been thinking of u so I am glad for the update! Hang in there!! Xxx
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Cherry,
I'm thinking of you hun, I'm going thru shit too, #%$%^ing men!!! That's all I have to say!!
Love ya!
xx
I'm thinking of you hun, I'm going thru shit too, #%$%^ing men!!! That's all I have to say!!
Love ya!
xx
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