Seriously, Am i crazy????

hey sorry to crash the post i just want to say on both start comment and end comment

I think every woman gets that broody feeling its in our nature even the most un maternal woman in the world get that feeling But in my personal opinion (no offense to the woman who do) having alot of kids so close together is unfair and very tiring i watched woman go through it eather each kid don't get the right amount of attention and start lashing our or trying get attention any way possible and its not there fult they dont wanna be a bad kid but lets face it kids need alot of attention especially when they are young, I think you should just put it as a phase for now and if you feel the same way in a few years or when your kids less dependent then go for it.

And last comment is dont let people who where only children make you feel like you have to have another child i was not a only child and i have friends who where lets face it ppl who where and where not all have complaints lol in my eyes as long as the child dose not grow up with out being around other kids day care , play dates so on there would be not problem with the good old "only child syndrome" I always said i wanted 2 kids close together 3 at a push IF i didn't get one of each then reality kicked in when i was pregnant dont get me wrong im happy that my little girl is almost here but i intended to have kids much later in my 20's early 30's because i wanted to finish college start my nursing. And be comfortable and now im not even going consider another child till she is AT LEST 5-6 i want more kids but i would like to be living comfortably with one kid before i bring another one in the mix

I completley agree with you there chik, i did come to the conclusion that in the end it was just a phase i went through, Trust me a 3rd child is very unlikley for me!!! i remeber going through it with jesse around the same age, and if i remeber correctly the next time i will go through that phase is at the 18month old stage so in a few weeks time....yipee. lol,

Havnt really had the chance to get to talk to you on these boards much as i havnt been on very often, but ill be back up in running in a wee while so hopefully get to know you a bit better!