WTTC your first or last baby!! Official chat!!!

Well my husband says that 2 is enough but I have my heart set on 3 children and like you Teressa I am not going back on the pill therefore he will have to take responsibilty, I would love to have a little girl next however I wouldn't be gutted if we had a boy, if he is as cute as Theo then I would feel extremely fortunate.

My cycles are on average 38 days but they have been as long as 47 days the shortest cycle I have ever had is 32 and that is what I am aiming for again! I am taking agnus castus, vit B complex and EPO to get my cycles shorter

Have you thought about taking parsley caps? I done this to regulate AF after being on depo for 2 years, it took 4 or 5 months and i was at a 28-30 day cycle.

Hehe, yep i wouldnt mind falling preg again, but DH is dead against it. but say for example it did happen and he had not taken resposibility like i said he had too, then technically thats not tricking him into it is it? I mean i would never go get preg just to fill my own selfish needs and im not lying to him by saying im on the pill when im not, so really if it happens it happens right?? understand what im saying??? its late here sort of and my words getting all muddled!!!

Its not lying tho is it????? I mean he knows that it can happen but he is not doing his part in stopping it so.....

I understand what you are saying..............I have told Rich that there are certain times he has to errrrrr withdraw :oops: otherwise we will end up pregnant again, so he knows the score, I have been honest and up front with him BUT what does he go and do?????? (I'll leave you thinking on that one!) like you have both said what happens, happens!! Of course ideally I would like to wait until late next year BUT if I did fall pregnant between now and then I would most definately keep the baby.

Well he has told me that if it happens i willl be terminating it, but like you georgi, i too have been honest with him and told him i refuse to take anything that will mess with my cycle and hormones again. I had a termination a few years ago and to this day i regret it, i know it was for the best at the time but its something i will always wonder about, i will never do that again, a baby is a blessing and finacially we can not afford it but we will find a way IF it happens

**secretly hoping it does happen in a year or so...***

Awwww bless you Teressa, I have never been faced with that heartbreaking decision but I know that if we were to fall pregnant between now and when is ideal, yes money would be tight BUT we would cope, I think you just learn to manage! I am not sure how Rich would feel if we were to fall pregnant again sooner than we had planned....I think he would accept that it was fate! But then we have both agreed on at least 2 children, its having 3 that is he against!

Well when we got togther kids wasnt on our agenda as i have had endo and got told i would probably never concieve naturally but low and behold i got preg with jess, i was upset but accepted it and since having him i havnt had really any signs of endo, its like i got cleaned out after having him. The we lost a baby nearly 2 years ago, i was 9 weeks preg, we lost that 1 week before xmas, then i wanted to give my body time so we started trying in sept last year, got preg first go and now have Kiers. I always said that i wanted a big family but he never discussed it on how many he wanted, just when kiers was born he said thats it, but i dont feel complete, i want to keep having them, i mean ive pushed two out why not another 2 or 4 or 6? lol.
My mums family huge, my nana was 1 of 15, mum was 1 of 9 so i think thats why i want a big fam