WTTC your first or last baby!! Official chat!!!

Awwww bless you Teressa, I have never been faced with that heartbreaking decision but I know that if we were to fall pregnant between now and when is ideal, yes money would be tight BUT we would cope, I think you just learn to manage! I am not sure how Rich would feel if we were to fall pregnant again sooner than we had planned....I think he would accept that it was fate! But then we have both agreed on at least 2 children, its having 3 that is he against!

Well when we got togther kids wasnt on our agenda as i have had endo and got told i would probably never concieve naturally but low and behold i got preg with jess, i was upset but accepted it and since having him i havnt had really any signs of endo, its like i got cleaned out after having him. The we lost a baby nearly 2 years ago, i was 9 weeks preg, we lost that 1 week before xmas, then i wanted to give my body time so we started trying in sept last year, got preg first go and now have Kiers. I always said that i wanted a big family but he never discussed it on how many he wanted, just when kiers was born he said thats it, but i dont feel complete, i want to keep having them, i mean ive pushed two out why not another 2 or 4 or 6? lol.
My mums family huge, my nana was 1 of 15, mum was 1 of 9 so i think thats why i want a big fam

I am so with you when you say no oral contraceptives. I hated having to take it for years. I would happily have a baby right but I think hubby wants to wait. He knows the score so if I did end up pregnant he would be happy, he would never make me terminate a pregnancy, especially not since we've had Molly. I kind of think it's romantic to have a large family and I dream of it but I want to provide good things for them and hope to send them to private schools so I think it's probably more practical to have 2. I want to take them on holiday and give them what I didn't have as a child.

we are waiting to TTC, esp with all the problems we have been having at home recently. our problems are mainly sorted out but we are still going to wait a bit, but this cycle has been so weird!!!

ive been sooo crampy, and peeing a lot too lol. and my lower back has been aching so bad. i dont know if this is all because of stress or what? i feel a lot like i did when i was preggo with kaydance, but my boobies dont really hurt to bad, just normal soreness for pms. in a perfect world AF is due tomorrow, but i dont temp and my cycles are really irregular so i have no idea if she will really show up or not. its just strange to have all the cramping and back pain for like 4 or 5 days now, cause normally i just get it like the day before AF. i dont know what to think!!! lol.

I would love to have 3 children but hubby saids only 2, as if we have 3 he feels (and I do see what hes saying) that we would need a bigger car, house etc....
But I also say I would love 3 as I LOVED being pregnant...but saying that my next pregnancy may be not good and I may never want to be preggers again...
As for not getting preganant yet, my hubby is in control I hope ... I know what your all thinking it takes two which is does so I wouldn't mind getting pregnant again now I refuse to take the pill as I think thats one of the problems why it took an age to get pregnant last time, and hubby hates condoms. After number 2 is born he will be having the sip....so we won't be having number 3!!!!

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hey i too would love 3 children, hubby says two but i think he wouldnt mind 3 at all.
however we will see as it took us 15months to conceive as there were some fertility problems, i would just love to be lucky and fall first go next tome lol
i am so looking forward to being pregnant again

I've decided now that I'm so going to have a hysterectomy after the next one, I've had enough of the constant pelvic pain, it destroys me!

OMG!!!! check out your chart Mrs!!!!!! I still think it's more likely you ovulated on CD18 but still those temps are looking VERY good indeed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! UPDATE US!!!!

We are planning on TTC soon. Possibly starting after K's first birthday, in Jan. I would like to at least be pregnant by her 2nd birthday (Jan 2010). If we happened to fall pregnant right away, I do realize we would be having another baby before K turns two, which would be ok, but I actually would LOVE to celebrate her 2nd bday withOUT a new baby. I just want to start a bit early because I know it could take us a bit to actually get pregnant.

In a perfect world, I would conceive in mid-summer 2009 and have the baby in spring of 2010, at least a couple months out from K's birthday (dont want them TOO close together, as far as bdays!)

Lol Nika...you'd be interested to know that my DH's grandma had 12 kids!! 12!!! So my FIL has 11 siblings and only two of them are male. The rest are female! I think it's hilarious.

Grandma is one of the only people who I can totally completely trust about parenting info...after all, she did it twelve times!!!

You know, I have on idea about bdays honestly...I dont know when all their bdays are. But back in the day, they didn't expect much, ya know? They probably each got a small gift, no matter when their special day was. Back then, Im pretty sure they didnt make all this hoopla over bdays, like we do Now, she just gives them cards.

I want 4 too, but DH would rather just have 2 or 3. I'm pretty sure we'll end up with 4

Helen wrote:I won't be going on any contraception after this one is born, so as Nika, will be in the hands of god !!!

I won't be going back on the pill after baby#2 that's for sure so I will be singing the same tune!!

Hmm...I'm not on any contraception RIGHT NOW! yikes!

I love the suspense...