I want to scream part II

**Lily*Blossom** Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:25 am

So last night I get a comment from my husband's psycho ex wife on my youtube channel. I of course have to approve the comment before it will show up, but this is what it says:

"Stepmom?"

I have no idea where that is coming from, she's nuts. I blocked her username.

But here is the kicker.

As we speak, his ex wife is contacting many of my husband's friends on facebook who are female that she accused him of having an affair with while they were married. May I point out that they divorced 5 years ago? Yes. So she is going over all his facebook friends and any names she recognizes out of his female facebook friends, she is writing to them, and accusing them of sleeping with her now ex husband when they were still together, over 5 years ago. 5 years is half a decade. My husband never cheated on her. He said he was definitely sick of her crap about 2 months after they got married, but he was always loyal. But you all know she had a pain killer addiction which left her a diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic.

WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY WHY?

One of the women was nice enough to write to my husband and explain that his ex wife had contacted him, and would it be okay if she talked to him more in detail about what his ex wife wrote to her. She wished him a happy new year before she told him about his ex wife contacting her, so my guess is that she knows the ex wife is nuts, but is wanting to let him know what is going on. My husband wrote the poor woman back and apologized for his ex wife's behavior, and explained that she is down right crazy, and how he has lost many friends because of her lies and ruthless rampages.

His ex also just got RE-engaged to the same guy she has been on and off with for about 4 1/2 years. They have broken up and gotten back together so many times, I can't even count. This is the same guy who told my husband at my step son's birthday party that he deserved a medal for sticking it out with her as long as he did.

It seems like every time she decides to marry this guy again, that she starts stalking me and going on these crazy rampages, contacting Justin's friends and trying to stir up trouble. My theory is that she knows she is settling for this (sorry I know it's rude) FAT and UGLY loser, and she is jealous that I am living a happy life with the man she threw away. She has told my husband before that her fiance is crap in bed, and she misses the sex life she had with my husband. There have been several times that she starts instant messaging my husband on Skype and telling him how sorry she is for her behavior that led to their divorce, only to go nuts a few days later and start spreading vicious lies about us.

This is the same person who asked my husband to send her his frozen sperm so she could have another child, because she doesn't want kids with her boyfriend (fiance whatever he is) because the kids would turn out ugly.

I heard a quote once: "When you harbor bitterness, happiness docks elsewhere."

She must be a really bitter unhappy person to be doing stuff like this half a decade after their divorce.

Sorry for the rant, I just really needed to vent.

mscherry42 Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:47 am

Dang!! I have never ever encountered someone as pyscho and crazy as your husband's exwife LB. Sorry you all are still going through it with that crazy b****.

**Angel** Sat Jan 16, 2010 12:11 pm

Hunny,I am sorry this has all come up again.after all this and it's such a bad time what with your expecting number two! anyway...I want to say that the only way to be happy is just to try and move on,save all her stuff,print it out and save hard copeis as evidence it will look good when you go for custody or at LEAST visitation of hubbys son.But asied from that,rant on here and then move on.Instead of being mad,I would try and pitty her.I mean how patheitc is it that she is that lonley and sad that she asks for her EX hubbies sperm...It's actually hillarious.Her crazyness knows no bounds and she lives in a fantasy world LOL.I would laugh at it and move on.Althuogh I am sorry it's bothering you I have to say,it's quite intriguing to see what she has dreamed up each time you post about her.She is INSAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANEEEEEEE! The point is,you won,you got hubby,you got your gorgeous growing little family and she got nothing,all she is doing in front of everyone is making herself look what she is,unfit as a mother and completely insane!
hugsxxx

**Lily*Blossom** Sat Jan 16, 2010 2:47 pm

I am actually not mad. The stuff she does is just so shocking that I HAVE to tell someone! LOL.

It will all work out someday as far as my step son knowing the truth. He will see his mother's true colors eventually! We have several tape recorded conversations of her being crazy and telling my husband he can't see his child. We even have a tape recording of her admitting that she doesn't know why she makes up lies about us, she just gets so mad about the fact that she couldn't win him back in the end, that it's her only out let.

I do pity her. I pity my step son more.

I just have to let it out, and once I do, I feel better Smile/happy

Thanks for listening Angel, and Mscherry.

xxxxxxx

dolly's momma Mon Jan 18, 2010 7:30 pm

The odd thing is on another message board I have, someone was talking about a very similar situation with their boyfriend's husband and his ex. In her case the ex had called her up complaining that she was writing all this awful stuff on the ex's facebook, and she wasn't. Anyways in her description she mentioned this seems to happen every 6 months or so. It makes me wonder if the exes in both situations are bipolar, and when swing into the manic phase of their illness all this uglyness starts coming out.........

Just a thought................I am just glad even though she is in your face on the internet physically that great big ocean is between her and you.

**Lily*Blossom** Mon Jan 18, 2010 9:02 pm

Oh she is bipolar DM! For sure! My husband said that all the crap I am experiencing right now was how his entire marriage to her was! So nuts!

Today she contacted me through her sister's facebook account, because I have her blocked. I blocked her sister and reported her to facebook for abuse. I'm SO done. I don't need this crap, especially when I am very early on in my pregnancy and trying not to become to stressed out.

Thanks for the advice and responses my dears! It always cheers me up!

sparkles Tue Jan 19, 2010 5:26 am

oh hun , you poor thing, she just never gives up and unfortuantly she will always be in your life becasue of your gorgeous step son. Your very strong and yes she is just totally jealous as your gorgeous, you have a loving relationship and growing family and are happy!!! how sad she cant move on with her own life
xoxo

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